Never say things in anger. If you are angry, go away, Flower if you hurt my granddaughter I can make your death look like an accident shirt, hoodie, sweater and v-neck t-shirt. Come back when you are calm and can discuss what happened rationally. Don't scream or yell. It doesn't help, in fact it can only hurt because once you say something hateful you can never take it back and the other person can never forget it. No one can hurt you as deeply as your spouse, they know where all the tender spots are.
