That is correct about my I tried to pass as straight needless to say I failed shirt is unfeeling that’s why I think about it yet I know all men think about it even though they feel theirs I was thinking I was perverted but I’m kind of a normal man really. Cheers to both of you. Our trans grandson and his fiancĂ© are getting married in the summer of 2019. They have been together for about 6 years. Like you, they supported each other through his top surgery. It was nice to read Harmony’s positive support. Grandpa is 80 and I’m almost 75. If you listen and have a loving heart you can learn and accept. I’ll never understand it, but it’s not for me to understand, I most certainly respect whatever decisions that people decide to make in their lives. I Can’t imagine feeling uncomfortable in my own skin. So congratulations on your new life in a new body.